Easing Into Menopause
Maybe you’re in your teens, 20s, or 30s thinking, “This doesn’t apply to me.”
If you’re young (we’re all young), know that it’s never too early to start thinking about how you’ll move through your 30s, 40s, and 50s. The functional medicine community states that the sooner you start taking care of yourself, the easier “the change” will be. (You’ll thank yourself later.)
Maybe you’re already “there.” Or perhaps you’re looking down the barrel of your 40s thinking, “Here it comes. I better brace myself. A hellish few years is awaiting me.”
And if you’re currently symptomatic, is it possible to get relief sans hormone replacement? Yes.
No matter what your age, read on!
In December, we ran a month-long series on our social media sites spotlighting perimenopause and menopause through the prism of adrenal and thyroid health. (Click here to read our Peri/Menopause program page.)
Our goal was to educate our readers about:
1. What might be at the root of their peri/menopausal symptoms
2. Lifestyle, nutritional, and supplemental recommendations for easing into this transformational life stage
3. Common misconceptions about peri/menopause
This series is similar to what we did with our:
Hashi NoNos chapbook >
Managing PCOS chapbook >
Restore Your Adrenals chapbook >
Here is our compiled list, our peri/menopause “chapbook” – 28 misconceptions, considerations, and suggestions for helping you ease into peri/menopause.
[Click here to get the .pdf version/chapbook of Easing Into Menopause.]
1. Menopause is a normal event in the aging process. Relentless and unpleasant symptoms aren’t normal. Treating these symptoms as a disease isn’t normal.
2. When does menopause occur? The average age of onset is 51 years, but most women can use their mother’s menopausal age as a good indicator of their own. If you haven’t had a period for one year, you’re officially post-menopause. There really is no other way to know.
3. The symptoms of peri/menopause are largely due to the chain reaction of ovarian aging and stress.
4. Women have generally put off taking care of themselves; other people in their lives have taken priority. This can bring about difficulty in peri/menopause.
5. Although symptoms are often referred to as “menopausal,” the pre-menopausal/perimenopausal years are typically rockier than actual menopause.
6. The term “perimenopause” didn’t even exist until about 20 years ago.
7. Your thyroid and adrenal health has everything to do with how you experience the inevitable hormonal transitions that occur in our 30s, 40s, and 50s. And the everyday nutritional and lifestyle choices you make have everything to do with your thyroid and adrenal health.
8. Unfortunately, the majority of women entering peri/menopause with some degree of adrenal dysfunction and low thyroid function – even subclinical low thyroid function (not revealed on standard lab results) – will experience unpleasant symptoms. Nourish, support, and balance your adrenals and thyroid and you could likely sail through perimenopause (aka “puberty in reverse”) and menopause with minimal symptoms – which, by the way, is what nature intended.
9. If you’re already in the “unpleasant symptoms” stage, is it possible to course correct and get relief from your weight gain, moodiness, forgetfulness, night sweats, and hot flashes? Absolutely.
10. Experts in the Functional Medicine community agree that peri/menopausal symptoms are signals that the body hasn’t received the needed nutritional, lifestyle, supplemental – and we would add spiritual – support.
11. “The important thing is to recognize that symptoms, at any age, are the body’s way of telling you that it is not getting the support it needs. Because each woman faces different demands, each will experience her own retinue of hormonally driven symptoms, which may ebb and flow depending on a host of other important factors, such as adrenal fatigue, serotonin depletion, and nutritional deficiencies.” - Marcelle Pick, Ob/Gyn, NP
12. The Functional Medicine community promotes a first line defense strategy of improved nutrition and lifestyle habits, including exercise and stress reduction, to manage peri/menopausal symptoms. If, after 6-9 months there are no improvements, then consider bio-identical hormone replacement therapy at the lowest dose for the shortest period of time necessary.
13. Did you know that the adrenal glands make progesterone? In fact, they’re responsible for a whopping 50% of post-menopause progesterone production. As the ovaries begin to slow their production of estrogen and progesterone (roughly after the age of 35), the body will look for back-up. If the adrenals are already fatigued from producing the stress hormones cortisol and adrenaline, they won’t be able to take on the job of progesterone production. The result? Unpleasant peri/menopausal symptoms.
14. “Healthy adrenal glands are vital for women who are peri- and post-menopausal. The adrenals are responsible for producing the majority of sex hormones in a menopausal woman once the ovaries stop functioning. If the adrenal glands are fatigued and not ready for menopause, there will be an exaggeration of symptoms such as hot flashes, weight gain, sleep problems, bone loss, mood swings, depression, anxiety, loss of sex drive, and vaginal dryness. Healthy adrenals ensure an easy transition into menopause and beyond.” - Dr. Nicholas Hedberg
15. “A woman in a state of adrenal exhaustion is likely to find herself at a distinct disadvantage when entering perimenopause, because perimenopause itself is an additional form of stress.” - Dr. Christiane Northrup
16. Lesser known symptoms of peri/menopause: social isolation and tendency toward introversion, less interest in grooming, not wanting to be a people-pleaser anymore (we say this is a good thing!), chest pain, palpitations, and a sense of, “That’s fine, but I don’t care.”
17. “The conventional misunderstanding persists that as progesterone production ceases, women no longer need to make this hormone. We may not be reproducing a life, but women are reproducing themselves for the rest of their lives. It’s not okay to have a hysterectomy to relieve symptoms. It’s not okay for the uterus to be taken out. It’s vital that all of our reproductive organs continue on.” - Dr. Janet Lang
18. In a perfect world, mid-life weight gain should be a modest 5 lbs or so. The more common 20-30 lb weight gain is the result of hormonal and metabolic imbalances that begin decades before the onset of menopause. If the delicate balance between the sex hormones, the adrenal and thyroid hormones, and insulin – the hormone that regulates blood glucose levels – is upset, the stage is set for the dreaded mid-life spread.
19. Ever heard of “thyropause?” This occurs when low thyroid hormone production stacks on top of waning progesterone and estrogen production. In short, it’s the one-two punch of hypothyroidism and perimenopause. Each condition can exacerbate the other.
20. As menopause approaches, pituitary hormones increase (FSH and LH) in an attempt to get a response from the ovaries. This is why these hormones are often tested when a woman wants to get pregnant after 35. But this doesn’t mean that conception isn’t possible later in life. “Perimenopause is a volatile time and numbers are not necessarily your destiny.” – Marcelle Pick, Ob/Gyn, NP
21. “While the physical changes you are going through may cause you varying degrees of discomfort, it’s important to remember that menopause can mark the beginning of an empowering transformation. Embracing ‘the change’ as something natural and honorable can decrease the variety, frequency, and severity of symptoms. Your positive attitude can increase the transformative power – and ease – of your experience.” Dr. Aviva Romm
22. Effective strategies for managing peri/menopausal symptoms:
- Balance blood sugar by balancing macronutrients at every meal, e.g. protein, fats, and carbohydrates.
- Get your Omega 3 fatty acids.
- Watch the sugar and caffeine intake.
- Stay regular by getting lots of fiber and water.
- Support the liver with dandelion root and milk thistle to aid in efficient estrogen metabolism. Consider supplemental DIM (di-indolylmethane), which boosts our good estrogens and helps to flush bad estrogens.
- Ensure that your Vitamin D levels are no less than 50 ng/mL.
- Educate your self about endocrine disruptors in skin care, cosmetics, and household cleaners.
- If hot flashes and night sweats are a problem, consider Vitamin E supplementation, acupuncture, and a mindfulness/relaxation practice. Have a regular breathing practice; it has been said to reduce hot flashes a whopping by 44%.
- Above all, manage your stress. It’s ok to slow down and say “no” to as much as you can. Sleep like it’s your job. Your adrenals will thank you.
23. Botanicals and herbs (aka phytotherapy) can be very powerful adjuncts to managing peri/menopausal symptoms. Try:
- Hops for hot flashes, memory, mood, and blood sugar balancing
- Passionflower for sleep disturbances and easing anxiety
- Black cohosh for hot flashes
- Motherwort for emotional irritability and heart palpitations
- Chaste berry (aka Chaste tree or vitex) for regulating the menstrual cycle, boosting progesterone production, and relieving moods swings and anxiety
24. Misconception #1: The ovaries are responsible for our menopausal experience.
The adrenals and thyroid are the major players here. The adrenal glands help to regulate the production of thyroid hormones. And, just like every other organ in the body, the ovaries require thyroid hormones to maintain a healthy balance of estrogen and progesterone.
25. Misconception #2: Unrelenting peri/menopausal symptoms such as heavy and/or irregular periods, weight gain, hot flashes, night sweats, moodiness, sleep disruption/insomnia, migraines, loss of libido, uterine fibroids, and worsening PMS are normal.
Normal is 12-18 months of mild symptoms prior to menopause. Normal would be the gradual cessation of menstruation.
26. Misconception #3: The symptoms of perimenopause are the result of declining estrogen.
In actuality, the first hormone to drop is progesterone. Estrogen levels should remain constant, or even increase a little. Estrogen and progesterone should counterbalance each other, but when that delicate dance is disrupted we can be left with estrogen dominance…the exact opposite of the conventional belief. Treating this imbalance with birth control pills or supplemental estrogen is like throwing gasoline on the fire.
27. Misconception #4: Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) is the only way to manage menopausal symptoms.
While low dose, short-term bioidentical hormone therapy may be helpful for some, it’s likely not the answer for most. Assess the stress in your life and also thyroid and adrenal function. If this doesn’t work, then move on to hormone replacement.
28. Misconception #5: Menopause signals the end of our youth and relevance in the world.
The old saying “perception is reality” applies here. If a woman enters this time of life with health and happiness, she will be able to embrace this transition with joy and ease. If she perceives this as a time of ill health and sadness, she will likely experience disruptive symptoms and look to others “fix” her. Women are hardwired to put the needs of others before their own. This can be a time of spiritual and emotional awakening and unapologetic self-care.
Jill.. You are SO smart..
Jill.. You are SO smart.. Incredibly smart and balanced . I always am blessed by your articles! Thanks so much for all you do !! Jamie
Aw, thank you, Jamie! Thank
Aw, thank you, Jamie! Thank you thank you…
what will help when you have
what will help when you have your ovaries surgically removed? My thyroid went hay wire gaining weight, losing my hair, and hot flashes all day long. I was just curious if there is a difference in menopause if you go thru it naturally or surgically?
Hi Linda, there is a
Hi Linda, there is a difference, as “surgical menopause” tends to bring on symptoms more quickly and can be more dramatic. I would suggest supporting your thyroid and adrenals to the fullest extent and to address any estrogen dominance due to exposure to xeno- and phyto-estrogens.
hi Jill can you offer any
hi Jill can you offer any suggestions on how to go about this? Also I was talking with my pcp and she said it is to late for me to try biodentical hormones because I had my ovaries out five years ago. Is this true? I am just frustrated with my weight and hairloss any suggestions?
Weight issues and hair loss
Weight issues and hair loss can be multi-factorial – food sensitivities, low hydrochloric acid, hypothyroidism, adrenal dysfunction, etc. I really don’t know the answer here. I know that it’s generally safe to take bio-identicals after ovarian removal and don’t know why there would be concerns if there has been a time lapse. Sorry I can’t be more definitive.
hi Jill I was just wondering
hi Jill I was just wondering if you knew much about TSH numbers mine was just tested and it was 1.44 I can't help wondering if that is to low?? And that is why I can't lose weight and my hair falling out but they keep telling me it is normal I did have Graves' disease but I am in remission. I never lost a pound when I did have it? They say only 2% do that! go figure!! Lol. I hope I am not bothering you with to many questions
Thank you for your comments. Your question and collection of symptoms represent a complex condition and cannot be answered responsibly on a blog comment. We’d love to help you – if you’d like to speak with one of our coaches, you’re welcome to schedule an introductory session via our Contact page.
Brilliantly written article
Brilliantly written article Jill! An eye opener about so many aspects. I have a doubt for myself. I am 48 just experiencing a postponed period for the first time. I have a wiry constitution and had put on 2 kilos in one year which is unusual for me.I casually checked my thyroid levels and my TSH was 12 in March and I've been using Kelp instead of any medication . It has now come down to 8. I have been experiencing memory loss, mood swings, depression, irritability, very rough skin and alarmingly high levels of fatigue and giddiness. Can kelp and vitex be used together?
Hi Sudha, I don’t see why
Hi Sudha, I don’t see why they can’t be used together, but you want to be careful not to get too much kelp.
This was so helpful. Taking
This was so helpful. Taking DIM and Chaste Berry and getting great results. Hot flashes and sleep both improved greatly.
This is great! (I plan on
This is great! (I plan on writing more about menopause soon – sometime this fall.)